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I Got a Nose Job Eight Years Ago—and This Is How I Feel About It Today

I was 25 at the time.
Skin

After 10 Years, I Broke Up With Natural Deodorant

It’s you, not me, deo.
Body

I Thought My Strange Skin Rash Was From the Heat. It Was Actually HS

“It was the worst pain I ever had in my life. It was very scary.”
ABOUT FACE

Bone Cancer in My Face Changed Everything I Thought I Knew About Aging

“After cancer, I just wanted to look ‘normal.’ More like a completed vessel than a potter’s pile of thrown clay.”
COLD COMFORT

Everything You Need to Know About Cryofacials and Cryotherapy

Cold therapy is hot right now — but does it actually have any benefits for your body and skin?
BODY IMAGE

I Wish More People Talked About Inverted Nipples, So I’m Sharing My Corrective Surgery Story

After two inversion corrections, I’m finally ready to admit that they happened.
ON LOCS

I Didn’t Have Another Twist-Out Left in Me… So I Loc’d My Hair

Loc’ing my hair has not only impacted the relationship I have with myself, but in the way I move through the world.
TAKING CARE

How My Beauty Routine Changes During Ramadan

My skin-care routine encourages me to take time to nurture myself, so I can focus my energy on prayer and self-reflection during the long days and nights ahead.
BEAUTY AT HOME

My Brazilian Beauty Rituals Are Part of My Immigration Story

"I would lie all the time like, 'Oh, I got my hair done at a salon.' But I definitely did it myself."
good vibes only

Black Women Have Used Self-Affirmation for Centuries

So, why does Instagram make it look so white?
SURVIVOR'S GUIDE

Breast Cancer Taught Me to Love My Body

Author and poet Danielle Doby shares a glimpse at life with cancer through a positive lens.
Thank You Notes

Thank You, John Frieda, for My Bouncing Curls

Frizz Ease eased my frizz and unlocked my alter ego.
Thank You Notes

Thank You, Big Legs, for Moving Me Forward

The photo that literally changed the course of my life.
Thank You Notes

Thank You, Scars, for Reminding Me That I Survived

I am who I am today because of you.
Thank You Notes

Thank You, Lottie, for the Undereye Tip

How to spackle your undereyes in celestial fields of glitter.
Thank You Notes

The Beauty and Pain of a Family Album

Thank you, Dad, for teaching me these lessons.
age positive

How Practicing “Mirror Meditation” Helped Me Embrace Getting Older

Four out of five of my close friends have had lower face-lifts — here's why I'm holding off.
Cut

Losing My Hair Made My Confidence Drop. Getting a Dramatic Haircut Restored It.

Turns out, I should've taken the train to Chop City a long time ago.
well well well

Buying Into Commercialized Wellness Left Me Broke and Unwell

The more supplements and treatments I bought, the broker I became — and none the healthier.
Gender and Beauty

The Spa Isn't as Relaxing — or Safe — for Transgender and Nonbinary People

Now that I present more masculinely, spas are a totally different place.